Saturday, March 8, 2014

"Unforgettable...

...that's what you are. Unforgettable, tho' near or far." Incredibly, this song by Nat King Cole played repeatedly on my shuffled Ipod over the past couple of weeks at the barn. And this past Thursday, EBC lost one of its best - our Babe. Unforgettable Babe. Though he did belong to EBC, he was "ours" - he was everyone's horse. He greeted all with a happy nicker. He was the first horse for so many kids and veterans because of his steady demeanor. He was the first horse my husband rode at EBC and the first horse ever that my 89 year old mother rode. Calm, collected, gentle Babe.

When I began volunteering at EBC five years ago, I knew nothing about horses. Babe called me to him one day, just two weeks into my stint. He spoke to me with such wisdom in those eyes - those big bright eyes. He had much to teach me. He'd be my mentor and friend. I fell in love and fell hard. I cried tears of happiness then because he ignited a passion.

My early lessons were with our Babe. He taught me some of the finer points of horsemanship, like patience and use of energy. He nuzzled me whether I made mistakes or not.

After I had my trail accident, all swollen, contused and concussed, I chose Babe to be the first horse to get back on and the first to take for a safe ride on the trails. My therapist, my healer. Our trustworthy Babe.

And, so, this past Thursday, under a bright blue sky, I removed Babe's blanket so he could feel the warmth of the sun all over. As I groomed him for the final time, he looked back at me as if to say, "C'mon" and started to mosey down to the shale trail. I followed. His last wish was to be on the trail again. We could only go so far because the snow was too deep. And, naturally, he understood. On our way back, he paused to gaze up at the pasture where they grazed in the summer months. His eye relayed fond memories.

With that, as the other horses looked on from afar, we said farewell to one of the best, serenaded by the birds who accompanied "21 Horse Lullaby" from my Ipod, all to drown out our sniffles and sobs. Dear Babe, you will always be...

..."Unforgettable in every way. And forever more, that's how you'll stay."